"Knowledge" <knowledg_e@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in message
news:uahh7417me5ogrja0u6fq0qcafq4ejneca@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> Yes,
>
> That is quite possible Johnny. She was the type of female that would
> do that.
>
> However, I had moved thousands of miles away and had no plans of
> coming back. I don't know if she knew I had left or not.
>
> Prepaid Legal told me yesterday that I need to go to court and file
> something that would force the judge to open the records and reveal
> where the child was born.
>
And what compelling reason could you give to get a sealed file opened? You
lack proof of any kind except hearsay. Even those who are on their death
beds can't get their own files opened, let alone a "parent"!
> They said they would have a local prepaid attorney contact me next
> week to get started on that..
>
> Cindy just lives about 15 miles from me. I wish she would just tell me
> the information herself. I'd promise her to never reveal that she is
> the mom if I found the child. Although I'm sure the child would then
> be angry at me.
>
>
> Cindy was one of those millions of White women who in their teens and
> 20's couldn't get enough of Black men and women. Then when she reached
> 30, and decided it was time to get married, she moved away to an all
> White small town. and found her two, unknowing, White guys to marry.
> Aside from the psychological problems I would hope she is having for
> having given away our child, she seems to be living a nice life.
>
The above paragraph tells me you are not yet mature enough to handle the
situation, because you insist it's a black/white thing. IF you can ever
get
past the race issue, you might have a chance...
> So even though I'm not sure, why I feel this way, I won't expose her
> to her husband and family there. Why I care about her I don't know.
> She certainly doesn't give a damn about me, and the fact that I have
> no other family on my fathers side at all. I may eventually reach the
> point where I will call her and threat hen her with exposure, but I
> hope it doesn't come to that. If she doesn't want the adult daughter
> in her life, I would do my damn best to keep the daughter away from
> her.
>
> If I can get it done through the attorney and the court system, that
> would be the best way. After that, I may have to get down in the
> cesspool with her and fight by any means necessary.
>
> The choice is going to be hers.
>
> I don't think Cindy realizes that I'm the last person on my fathers
> side of the family. My nearest cousin is Mannie Jackson. He was the
> owner of the Harlem globetrotters basketball team from 1993 to 2005 at
> which time he sold the team for $70,000,000. His grandfather and my
> father were first cousins.
>
I don't think Cindy gives a rat's ass about you or your family lines
coming
to an end. It happens to many families daily. Deal with it!
> I have talked to him once, but have never met him.
>
> And so it goes.
>
> On Sat, 12 Jul 2008 06:09:26 GMT, "Johnny" <thisis@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
>
>>
>>"Knowledge" <knowledg_e@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in message
>>news:trmf74l9ev0qj2dghepfnjbr67mednlkp1@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>>> ImHotep,
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>> This would have been different Johnny, because this woman had asked me
>>> for $150.00
>>>
>>>
>>> Had I been foolish enough to give it to her, I'm sure she would have
>>> told me in a few days that after further checking this was not my
>>> daughter, and she would continue searching..
>>>
>>> Then every few months the same thing would happen. she would end up
>>> making hundreds perhaps thousands of dollars from me, and I would have
>>> nothing, but much rage at scoundrels like that.
>>>
>>> I have been searching for 21 years now without success, but I have
>>> been wise enough to not allow predators to rip me off.
>>>
>>> Thanks to Polly, I immediately backed away from the woman. Debra says
>>> she intends to continue searching which is fine by me.
>>>
>>> I contacted Kinsolving a couple of days ago. I gave them the birth
>>> moms name, address, phone number, ANDDDDDDDDDD social security number.
>>>
>>> Yet, these folks said they could do nothing without the exact date of
>>> birth, and place of birth. So I wiped them from my mind as well.
>>>
>>> I'm going to contact Prepaid Legal in a few minutes and see if they
>>> have any helpful advice for me.
>>>
>>> And so it goes.
>>>
>>> www.prepaidlegal.com/info/clydel39
>>>
>>
>>Without an exact DOB, there isn't going to be anybody that can help you.
>>I
>>know Kinsolving could have helped had you had enough info, but from what
I
>>can tell everything you are working with is hearsay... I'm thinking that
>>she
>>might have told you she had your kid just to torture you...
>>
>>>
>>> On Thu, 10 Jul 2008 15:21:52 GMT, "Johnny" <thisis@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
>>>
>>>>
>>>>"Knowledge" <knowledg_e@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in message
>>>>news:igka74drf7b7gkni3v7vg2hdblo73df2c4@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>>>>> Thank you very much for your words of wisdom Polly. :-) I was about
to
>>>>> step off into a no win situation.
>>>>>
>>>>
>>>>Same thing you have done for years, why is now so different?
>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> On Wed, 9 Jul 2008 20:03:49 -0400, "Polly" <Purebread@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>
>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>>She may be great at what she does BUT she has absolutely no
experience
>>>>>>in
>>>>>>adoption-related searches. All she could do is give you a list of
>>>>>>names
>>>>>>with your possible daughter's DOB and since you are not even aware
of
>>>>>>what
>>>>>>that is, it's a huge long-shot.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Go to: http://www.kinsolving.com
>>>>>>
>>>>>>She is a no-find/no-fee searcher and can help you. She will let you
>>>>>>know
>>>>>>upfront if she can do your search or not. Do not go with a PI who
has
>>>>>>no
>>>>>>adoption search experience like Debra.
>>>>>>"Knowledge" <knowledg_e@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in message
>>>>>>news:7vja74hegkuh036t5sr8lh2k70n36gldtj@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>>>>>>> Thank You sweetie. That's what I needed to know.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> I joined a Yahoo forum yesterday after finding online that she was
a
>>>>>>> member. I notice that they all seemed to be private investigators.
>>>>>>> No
>>>>>>> one was saying anything negative about her; so I assumed she would
>>>>>>> be
>>>>>>> OK?
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Now I'm not so sure.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> On Wed, 9 Jul 2008 18:46:24 -0400, "Polly"
<Purebread@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>
>>>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>That person has no experience in adoption-type searches. They are
a
>>>>>>>>PI
>>>>>>>>organization.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>"Knowledge" <knowledg_e@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in message
>>>>>>>>news:ru7774hqesnm5t5qegokr89bhulekr3inp@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>>>>>>>>> Can anyone offer any information on this woman who says she is
an
>>>>>>>>> expert in finding children who are given up for adoption?
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> How do I know you are the Real Deal Debra? Asking for money
before
>>>>>>>>> you
>>>>>>>>> have shown me anything tangible?
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> Go to www.freelancesecurity.com and search for the username
>>>>>>>>> totalinvestigations. You can read reviews of those who I have
>>>>>>>>> completed projects for. Also, I can supply you with other
>>>>>>>>> investigators who I have either worked with or for, as well as
>>>>>>>>> attorney's if you want them. I told you that I would check my
free
>>>>>>>>> databases to see what I could find. I did find a person who I
>>>>>>>>> think
>>>>>>>>> could be your daughter and this was never found by you, so not
all
>>>>>>>>> of
>>>>>>>>> what I have found is the same as what you found. I can not pay
for
>>>>>>>>> other expenses that may incur during your investigation. The
only
>>>>>>>>> reason that I asked for a retainer is because I have to pay for
>>>>>>>>> certain data, travel, phone calls, etc., not counting my time.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> Thank you
>>>>>>>>> Debra McCain
>>>>>>>>> Total Investigations
>>>>>>>>> P. O. Box 219
>>>>>>>>> Puckett, Ms. 39151
>>>>>>>>> 601-824-0412
>>>>>>>>> e-mail - totalinvestigations@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> Free your mind!...and the booty will follow.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> http://www.youtube.com/view_play_list?p=0CC755686FAD2019
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>
>>
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