Re: Cross your fingers for me please!

You're going to be okay.  Take a deep breath.  Cramping is normal.
Even with your history of a prior ectopic, your odds of having another
ectopic are very small.  You do need to get in soonest with your OB
practice;  maternal reassurance is a medical reason for close
observation.

Re your age, don't worry about that one moment longer.  You are not a
primipara and you are not old for a multipara.  (I was older than you
are now when I conceived my 1st child;  so there!)

Pologirl
2004 Monkey Boy (catching up on the growth curve and reading and
writing too!)
2005 Tiny Angel
2006 Hungry Girl (80% height, skinny, and more than a match for her
big brother)